Loving myself

i think i had often or perhaps most of the time interpreted that phrase wrongly. I thought loving myself meant that allocating more time to do the things that i want, thinking of myself, not caring about others.

Perhaps those things does naturally contribute to the elements of loving self but that is not the roots of the subject. That i think will be refer to pampering or spoiling yourself but not loving.

I think i finally understood what that terms means, after 2 decades being alive. Loving yourself literally mean, accepting who you are and working constantly of developing yourself. The biggest challenge i think is to accept that you're a nobody. It's cruel but it's a must. I'm not sure if that's the correct way to begin with, but you wouldn't know if it's right or wrong till you actually takes a step.